A picturesque weekend to celebrate Grammy's birthday. J swam for hours and confirmed that Grammy is "his best friend". The setting was spectacular, it was a weekend to be remembered for a long time. Cliff House Maine.
I have to say that the single most important lesson I learned in 25 years talking every single day to people, was that there is a common denominator in our human experience. Most of us, I tell you we don’t want to be divided. What we want, the common denominator that I found in every single interview, is we want to be validated. We want to be understood. I have done over 35,000 interviews in my career and as soon as that camera shuts off everyone always turns to me and inevitably in their own way asks this question “Was that okay?” I heard it from President Bush, I heard it from President Obama. I’ve heard it from heroes and from housewives. I’ve heard it from victims and perpetrators of crimes. I even heard it from Beyonce and all of her Beyonceness. She finishes performing, hands me the microphone and says, “Was that okay?” Friends and family, yours, enemies, strangers in every argument in every encounter, every exchange I will tell you, they all want to know one thing: was that okay? Did you hear me? Do you see me? Did what I say mean anything to you? And even though this is a college where Facebook was born my hope is that you would try to go out and have more face-to-face conversations with people you may disagree with.
I believe happiness is a state. I have been fully, truly happy many times in my life. I describe it as complete. Wanting for nothing. Present. A few times that I will never forget (in no particular order): A side of the highway somewhere between Vancouver and Seattle. A trip to Spain. NYC on my birthday weekend. My backyard with J a few weeks ago. They are moments in time of clarity and light. I am with someone that I love. I am accepted as I am. I am free.
17. Which talent would you most like to have?
It would be nice to be an artist - to be able to express myself with paint, or photography or drawing.
18. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
I would be a better person if I had more patience, with myself and those around me.
19.What do you consider your greatest achievement?
Bringing my son into this world and being his mama.
20.If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be?
A man. I have no single doubt that they experience a very different world than a woman does. It would be interesting to see their perspective.
...believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart, even if it leads you off the well worn path. and that will make all the difference" - Steve Jobs