Friday, November 9, 2012
Friday
“Love is what we are born with. Fear is what we learn. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and prejudices and the acceptance of love back in our hearts. Love is the essential reality and our purpose on earth. To be consciously aware of it, to experience love in ourselves and others, is the meaning of life. Meaning does not lie in things. Meaning lies in us.” - Marianne Williamson
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Thursday, November 8, 2012
Thirty-Eight!
Today, your 2 week notice went out. As your dad likes to say....you've got two weeks to come out on your own otherwise you're being evicted. Your free ride is up and it's time to start paying some rent. We accept it in the form of hugs, kisses and sweet smelling cuddles!
2 more weeks until your arrival day, my boy, and we are just so eager to meet you. I still feel good. I've been blessed with a relatively easy second and third trimester. Carrying you isn't that difficult and I've actually kind of got used to this belly and condition. Your room is done, your clothes are washed and our bags for the hospital are packed.
And so we wait. Eager and excited, the anticipation is really building. You're almost here. I feel it, in my body and in my soul. You are so very loved already.
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2 more weeks until your arrival day, my boy, and we are just so eager to meet you. I still feel good. I've been blessed with a relatively easy second and third trimester. Carrying you isn't that difficult and I've actually kind of got used to this belly and condition. Your room is done, your clothes are washed and our bags for the hospital are packed.
And so we wait. Eager and excited, the anticipation is really building. You're almost here. I feel it, in my body and in my soul. You are so very loved already.
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
The people have spoken...
On this morning after election day, I wanted to take a break from the usual programming to say that today I am proud of our people's choices. I am proud that the overwhelming voice of America still believes in personal freedom - whether that be associated with gay rights, women's health, immigration or a host of other social issues. I'm glad that when a senator makes ridiculously ignorant comments about rape, he is not re-elected. I'm glad to see representatives from the Tea Party, known for outlandish social views, lose their seats. I'm glad to see such a rise in minority voters showing up at the polls and reshaping some of the electoral college maps.
The people have spoken and I, for one, like what they said.
And here's the text of the President's acceptance speech. It literally brought tears to my eyes.
The people have spoken and I, for one, like what they said.
And here's the text of the President's acceptance speech. It literally brought tears to my eyes.
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
Election Day
Please vote. Vote for the people around the world that aren't given the privilege of democracy. Vote for the people of the past who fought hard to guarantee this right for all of us. Vote for the people of the future who will be effected by the leaders we put into place today. It is not a basic human right; it is a freedom that we are so fortunate to have.
Monday, November 5, 2012
GAP reusable bags
We have a Gap Outlet right down the street which is turning into a great resource for basics for the little guy. I was in there yesterday and by the register they had GAP branded reusable bags. Since I feel like I hardly leave the house empty handed anymore and trying to reduce my carbon footprint one small piece at a time, I just picked one up. It is completely unadvertised but using their reusable bag saves you 10% everytime you make a purchase there! Sweet! The salesgirl said they don't advertise it at all.... but what a good little perk. Now you know, too.
Friday, November 2, 2012
Worn out
In an effort to keep this space honest, today I am tired, worn down, and a little frustrated. Completely aware that this feeling will pass, I just need to hang on tightly, breathe deeply and wait it out. The rise and fall of the tide, the passing of the days, the changing of the seasons... it is all fleeting and there is amazing peace in knowing that no feeling is forever.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Hello November!
Wow, November is here. This is our month. It seemed so far away when I started my 40 week countdown back in March and now it's arrived. Only 3 more weeks of waiting. It's hard to wrap my head around it.
I'm HARDLY the pregnancy expert, but a few things that I learned along the way in case they're of any use to anyone:
> First and foremost, get started on shopping, registering, nursery decor and anything else you can think of EARLY. You may feel silly in the baby stores with only a little bump, but trust me, you'll be so glad you did. Inevitably, your weekends will fill up in the last months and having the bulk of the "errands" done has been a lifesaver. From weeks 20-30, I felt so energized and elated. Somewhere around week 34, I really slowed down. Every pregnancy is different and you just don't know what's around the corner for you so the more you can do while you're feeling good, the better. If I make no other recommendation but this one, it will be enough.
> When your clothes initially stop fitting and you're feeling bummed out, go to Destination Maternity. In my opinion, they have the best selection and a wide range of prices/styles. I invested in a pair of designer maternity jeans that I have worn from 3 months thru 9 months, and couldn't have spent that $200 in a better way. Aside from that, I really did not splurge too much. A lot of basic tees and tanks from Old Navy and Target and put them with non-maternity cardigans. I bought a few funky accessories so even if I was in the same black tank, I could make it look like a slightly different outfit (and you can still use them post-partum). Someone told me not to go crazy with maternity clothes, so I kept it very basic and am glad I did. I'd rather save the resources for a few nice things once I'm out of maternity wear!
> One day at a time. Some days, particularly early and late in the game, you just don't feel well. Knowing that every single day is different has been important to my sanity. Thinking, "how will I deal with 8 months of this..." can make you crazy (!) --- especially since the very next day you might wake up feeling nothing like the day before. In my experience, everyday was different. I listened to my body, rested when I needed to and went a million miles per hour when I felt I could.
> Keep perspective. Has the pregnancy been entirely glamorous or easy or comfortable --- nope. But I've tried to be really present and enjoy it. I know that it is temporary and the majority of my life will not be in this condition. On the days that I've felt a little sorry for myself or wanting that glass of wine or afternoon coffee, I've tried to just remember the miracle of what is happening and how fortunate me and my son are for being given this opportunity to grow together.
37 weeks down....
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I'm HARDLY the pregnancy expert, but a few things that I learned along the way in case they're of any use to anyone:
> First and foremost, get started on shopping, registering, nursery decor and anything else you can think of EARLY. You may feel silly in the baby stores with only a little bump, but trust me, you'll be so glad you did. Inevitably, your weekends will fill up in the last months and having the bulk of the "errands" done has been a lifesaver. From weeks 20-30, I felt so energized and elated. Somewhere around week 34, I really slowed down. Every pregnancy is different and you just don't know what's around the corner for you so the more you can do while you're feeling good, the better. If I make no other recommendation but this one, it will be enough.
> When your clothes initially stop fitting and you're feeling bummed out, go to Destination Maternity. In my opinion, they have the best selection and a wide range of prices/styles. I invested in a pair of designer maternity jeans that I have worn from 3 months thru 9 months, and couldn't have spent that $200 in a better way. Aside from that, I really did not splurge too much. A lot of basic tees and tanks from Old Navy and Target and put them with non-maternity cardigans. I bought a few funky accessories so even if I was in the same black tank, I could make it look like a slightly different outfit (and you can still use them post-partum). Someone told me not to go crazy with maternity clothes, so I kept it very basic and am glad I did. I'd rather save the resources for a few nice things once I'm out of maternity wear!
> One day at a time. Some days, particularly early and late in the game, you just don't feel well. Knowing that every single day is different has been important to my sanity. Thinking, "how will I deal with 8 months of this..." can make you crazy (!) --- especially since the very next day you might wake up feeling nothing like the day before. In my experience, everyday was different. I listened to my body, rested when I needed to and went a million miles per hour when I felt I could.
> Keep perspective. Has the pregnancy been entirely glamorous or easy or comfortable --- nope. But I've tried to be really present and enjoy it. I know that it is temporary and the majority of my life will not be in this condition. On the days that I've felt a little sorry for myself or wanting that glass of wine or afternoon coffee, I've tried to just remember the miracle of what is happening and how fortunate me and my son are for being given this opportunity to grow together.
37 weeks down....
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