Accept that our partner is meant to be a compliment. Accept that they are not there to sustain us. Accept that we are connected beings and can generate amazing power through the love we have for each other, but the only thing that binds us is that love. Accept that co-dependency is not the goal.
Accept true and unconditional love. Accept it from anyone around us willing to give it to us but turn inward, rather than outward, when we wish we had more. Accept responsibility.
"Accept noone's definition of your life; define yourself." - Robert Frost