Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Blessings for a Marriage - James Dillet Freeman

A work week sandwiched between the wedding weekends of two dear friends, has marriage on the mind.  What does it mean to love another, to commit to spending a lifetime together, to vow before God, your family and your friends to love one another for the eternity of your lifetimes? 

I've had the great priveldge to be married to my best friend for the past 5.5 years.  I firmly believe that our souls connect in a way that is beyond the comprehension of the human mind.   There is, and always has been, a force, something greater than ourselves, which has drawn us together and kept us together.  I also believe, strongly, that marriage and love is ever growing, ever changing, ever needing of devotion and shared commitment to one, unified vision of the future.    

On that note, these eloquent words by James Dillet Freeman:

Blessing For A Marriage by James Dillet Freeman
“May your marriage bring you all the exquisite excitements a marriage should bring, and may life grant you also patience, tolerance, and understanding. May you always need one another -- not so much to fill your emptiness as to help you to know your fullness. A mountain needs a valley to be complete. The valley does not make the mountain less, but more. And the valley is more a valley because it has a mountain towering over it. So let it be with you and you. May you need one another, but not out of weakness. May you want one another, but not out of lack. May you entice one another, but not compel one another. May you embrace one another, but not out encircle one another. May you succeed in all-important ways with one another, and not fail in the little graces. May you look for things to praise, often say, "I love you!" and take no notice of small faults. If you have quarrels that push you apart, may both of you hope to have good sense enough to take the first step back. May you enter into the mystery that is the awareness of one another's presence -- no more physical than spiritual, warm and near when you are side by side, and warm and near when you are in separate rooms or even distant cities. May you have happiness, and may you find it making one another happy. May you have love, and may you find it loving one another.”